Frequently Asked Questions
Everything you need to know about Crushable and how it works.
Is this going to make me sound like a robot?
Quite the opposite. We analyze YOUR natural style and suggest responses that sound like you—just with better timing. Think observant best friend, not script generator.
How is this different from ChatGPT?
ChatGPT doesn't know your crush laughed at your dad joke last Tuesday, or mentioned loving indie coffee shops three times. We do. Context is everything.
Is my data actually private?
Yes. Your conversations stay private by default. We don't sell data or train public AI models with it. Check our privacy policy if you're skeptical (we would be too).
Will this really help?
Fair question. Crushable works because it's low-effort, high-impact: one daily quest (2-5 min), smart nudges when needed. If you can't spare 5 minutes for someone you like... well.
Can I use this for multiple crushes?
Technically yes, but we're judging you. (Kidding. Track as many connections as you want—we won't tell.)
How does the free tier work?
Free credits for AI features—quest generation, chat analysis, reply suggestions. Most people find it generous. Heavy users can upgrade.
What makes Crushable different from dating apps?
Dating apps show you profiles. We help you actually connect with people. We're not about swiping—we're about building real relationships with the people you're already interested in.
How does the AI learn my style?
The AI analyzes your conversation patterns, vocabulary, humor, and tone from the interactions you log. The more you use it, the better it gets at understanding your unique communication style.
Can I delete my data?
Absolutely. You have full control over your data. You can delete individual conversations, memories, or your entire account at any time from your settings.
Do I need to use it every day?
Not required, but daily use builds better habits and momentum. Even completing one small quest per day makes a difference. The streak system rewards consistency.
What if the AI suggestion doesn't feel right?
Trust your gut. The AI is a tool to enhance your judgment, not replace it. Use suggestions as inspiration and adjust them to match your exact mood and situation.
Is this ethical?
We believe so. Our goal is to help you be more authentic, not to manipulate or deceive. We don't encourage dishonesty or game-playing. The focus is on genuine connection, not just getting matches.